When my own family who lives about 50 miles away gives me the run-around about Holiday plans. My aunt is going out of state to spend Christmas with her boyfriend's relatives. I was ORIGINALLY told that they were planning on celebrating on December 28th, and I have other relatives coming in from the Dallas/Ft. Worth area I haven't seen in some time for New Year's, so I committed to that. Well, on Thanksgiving, the relatives who wanted to do Christmas on the 28th apparently changed the schedule on me to New Year's...after I had already made other commitments on New Year's. Even after I told them straight-up I had other plans for New Year's, they STILL show no signs of changing that schedule. I find it sad and insulting that these relatives will accommodate for my aunt's schedule, yet WON'T accommodate for mine, despite the sacrifices I make to go there. Additionally, they won't even return my calls or my messages.
I swear, if they continue this shit, I'm going to unwrap ALL of the gifts I had bought for them and send them to Goodwill and/or the Salvation Army (including my 5-year-old cousin's gifts) to send them a message that this kind of bullshit will NOT be tolerated, especially during a time when family values are to be held to the absolute highest standard! It ain't nice, but I've got to get the message out on how seriously I take this shit somehow...I mean, if they're not going to be grateful for the sacrifices I make to spend time with them, and they're going to accommodate for one relative's schedule but not another's, why the f*** should I give them a damn Christmas present?!