Shit, is there any way we can gain access to the chat logs? I kinda want to see what kind of trolling I did when Rita was in the chat room, just for old-time's sake. Then again, LC probably has a better memory of my chat trolling than I do (since he's the only one who ever calls me out on it), anyway, so he could probably tell you.
Wouldn't they be talking in the chat room while they were literally in the same location, though? Like I said, I never socialized much on an individual basis with TRMK members since joining a year and a half ago, but I might have seen LC and his wife talking in the chatroom while they were literally in the same location. I know they did while LC was at work.
I remember that. NS and I would be talking about rap battles and dick jokes while they were asking eachother what the other wanted for dinner. Good times. TRMK lost a good one. RIP
They would be having a normal cohesive conversation while you two would be having a conversation at the same time, then I would stroll through it scratching my head, what the heck was going on there!
im sorry for your loss LC. my condolences. i didnt really know rita but everything i heard about her was good. its always hard to lose family/friends. we are all here for you.
Im really sorry for your loss. I cant begin to imagine what this must be like. Take time to mourn and accept it. Try to remember the goodtimes for what they were.
Thank you so much to everyone for your love and support. Your response here has been so much more than I expected. I tried thanking every post in this thread, but I appear to have run afoul of the rules regarding number of thanks is a specified period... I'll get around to it eventually. I love all you guys.
The photo gallery has now been added to the memorial page... those of you that have already been there, be sure to go back and check out the pics. You may find some of them amusing... particulary those that include a much younger Love Cowboy
The photo gallery has now been added to the memorial page... those of you that have already been there, be sure to go back and check out the pics. You may find some of them amusing... particulary those that include a much younger Love Cowboy
The 4th picture in the slideshow when Sarah is all over you on the bench, I got that exact same Smashing Pumpkins shirt! What were you two doing that day? Do you remember?
The 4th picture in the slideshow when Sarah is all over you on the bench, I got that exact same Smashing Pumpkins shirt! What were you two doing that day? Do you remember?
That was way back in 1998 when we first started seeing each other. It was Spring Break and we were at Six Flags Astroworld (which no longer exists). We used to love the roller coasters <3
While definitely not mine, I posted this poem on my Facebook a few weeks ago when it was the anniversary of my dad's death. I figured you'd like the poem as well, LC.
Spoiler:
Memories of You - Shigeo Komori
The voice of the wind and droplets of life flow over you as you doze.
I will never forget the gentle smile and the eyes you hid in sorrow.
You have me the courage to wish (even when it hurts) and to fight, so I can go on.
In my dreams (even when I wake) I will see you again.
I sing, with a distant memory in my heart.
You defended this fragile and fleeting world with your hands, so please, fold your wings now and rest.
Sheltered by an eternal peace, love through all eternity.
Rest now in my arms, as I watch over you
As I recall your joy, your sorrow and your rage
I will remember you always, until my life exhausted.
At an intersection, I heard a voice similar to yours
I turned to look up at the sky, to force back my sudden tears.
I continue to walk alone, aimlessly, believing that I will see you again tomorrow (someday)
Through rainy nights (and sunny days) I wait for you.
I'll never forget that dark night, we made it through together.
That blindingly brilliant moment when we were together
Those precious times I didn't realize I should cherish
Now all I can do is remember, I will embrace the feeling.
I know for a fact, you were there by my side
You were always, always, always there, smiling
If I ever lose you, I will find you,
I will never leave you.
I figured you would like that since what it's about. We never truly leave what we think is gone. They remain alive as long as their memories are inside of you. While may not be able to talk to you directly, who says she isn't there watching and listening?
It's hard to lose a loved one, but keep your head up.
I still can't believe it...I really loved all the pictures but it made me really sad seeing her through life and knowing she isn't here. She was always so happy and bubbly.
Feel free to chat with us in this thread about whatever you want, we will help you, LC =)
No, we do not have any children. She always wanted them, but things never quite worked out. That child belongs to our best friend who originally hooked us up. That kid is 6 now. I joked with Sarah just the other day that he is now better at video games than she is. :laugh:
While definitely not mine, I posted this poem on my Facebook a few weeks ago when it was the anniversary of my dad's death. I figured you'd like the poem as well, LC.
Spoiler:
Memories of You - Shigeo Komori
The voice of the wind and droplets of life flow over you as you doze.
I will never forget the gentle smile and the eyes you hid in sorrow.
You have me the courage to wish (even when it hurts) and to fight, so I can go on.
In my dreams (even when I wake) I will see you again.
I sing, with a distant memory in my heart.
You defended this fragile and fleeting world with your hands, so please, fold your wings now and rest.
Sheltered by an eternal peace, love through all eternity.
Rest now in my arms, as I watch over you
As I recall your joy, your sorrow and your rage
I will remember you always, until my life exhausted.
At an intersection, I heard a voice similar to yours
I turned to look up at the sky, to force back my sudden tears.
I continue to walk alone, aimlessly, believing that I will see you again tomorrow (someday)
Through rainy nights (and sunny days) I wait for you.
I'll never forget that dark night, we made it through together.
That blindingly brilliant moment when we were together
Those precious times I didn't realize I should cherish
Now all I can do is remember, I will embrace the feeling.
I know for a fact, you were there by my side
You were always, always, always there, smiling
If I ever lose you, I will find you,
I will never leave you.
I figured you would like that since what it's about. We never truly leave what we think is gone. They remain alive as long as their memories are inside of you. While may not be able to talk to you directly, who says she isn't there watching and listening?
It's hard to lose a loved one, but keep your head up.
It's quite the nice poem nemesis... thanks. but who says she's not able to talk to me directly? She's told me tons of things. Told me how annoyed she was Jimmie Johnson won the Daytona 500 yesterday (she hates him). Told me how happy she was that Anne Hathaway won an Oscar for Les Mis. Told me how much she likes the Mumford and Sons album I bought yesterday (she had said before she died that she wanted it, but never got around to it). This morning after I was finished picking hymns for her funeral, this hymn that wasn't one of the ones I selected just popped into my head out of nowhere and it was so perfect... so I was like "what, you wanted that one? Fine" and changed it. She's still with me all right... no doubt in my mind.
I still can't believe it...I really loved all the pictures but it made me really sad seeing her through life and knowing she isn't here. She was always so happy and bubbly.
Feel free to chat with us in this thread about whatever you want, we will help you, LC =)
Thanks Jade... I'd love to chat with you guys about her. I'll talk to anyone about her right now. I can't stop talking about her. Some people tend to avoid people whose loved ones just died because they don't know what to say... Please don't any of you be like that with me.
