What Grinds your Gears, part 2

LOL too true.

I just don't see the intentional need to be "different than everyone else". Just be yourself :S.

Subsequently this is why I hate Bandwagoners as well.
 
Blonde 60+ rancid carnts driving in Chevy Equinoxes who don't look when they pull out of a gas station turning left, because (and I shit you not) "Someone else was let out, so I thought it was safe". Needless to say, the fackface in question hit my car.

That sound? It's my repair shop having a rifle through your insurance company's bank account, b!tch.
 
Blonde 60+ rancid carnts driving in Chevy Equinoxes who don't look when they pull out of a gas station turning left, because (and I shit you not) "Someone else was let out, so I thought it was safe". Needless to say, the fackface in question hit my car.

That sound? It's my repair shop having a rifle through your insurance company's bank account, b!tch.

people like that shouldn't be driving lol.

I also hate it when people wait until the second they turn to do their damn turn signal. some people need to just take the bus or walk.
 
I had sex with a Thai dude who didn't look all bad except his teeth and the clothes he wore. His body was fine. He wasn't good looking but he was still ok to bone. For the first, time I actually topped correctly but I'm still learning.

All that was ok.

Then he started to grind my gears when he asked me (using Grindr through message) to "come over" like 5 times in a row even after I told him I'll be busy for the rest of the week. He was like. "where are you" "I miss you". Then he shows me more nude pics of him. Lastly, when I went back to see his message, all the conversation in the message was deleted. All there was is him saying "???". I left it as is without a response and the next day, that message and his profile was gone. He probably blocked me.

I think it was a blessing for him to block me because him telling me to come over, saying he misses me, and showing non stop nude pics was too much for a guy like him. *rolls eyes*
 
When I tell a guy I like him (even as a worker in a coffee shop) then they'd distance and hide away from me. It's all males (gay and straight) and it doesn't mean that I like them sexually. At least for the most part. Still, what's the point of getting to know me and asking me to introduce myself when they'd just hide away afterwards? It's very stupid how they do that. *rolls eyes*
 
my dad can sometimes be a giant douchebag.

going back a bit, my brother's stag and doe was may 24th. my dad the very day before calls my brother at a time he knows my brother wont be around to answer the phone (my dad is famous for being a pussy like this) and tells my brother he wont be going to the stag and doe because he 'has stuff to do'. my brother was damn well livid. there are 3 of us, myself and my two brothers, and my older brother is the first one to get married....and he doesn't even show up to it? we know he had nothing to do at all except go and play bingo with my grandma from 2pm - 3pm. he didn't have to get to the stag and doe until later, anyway. he had nothing else to do that day at all. my brother's fiancee was telling me how mad he was when he got the message. i honestly don't know how a parent could do that. when i have kids, i wont miss times like that for anything.

anyway, over the weekend, my boyfriend and i went to a friend's house to help him renovate his garage. since dating my boyfriend, i am now a regular part of 'the crew' lol because he is my brother's friend and they are both part of the group. anyway, a lot of the guys know my dad because they also played hockey with him, so, the guy who owns the house asked if he wanted to help out so my dad says okay. all my dad did was act like an embarrassing ass. he insulted my boyfriend like 900 times. i mean, yeah, it was poking fun, but, holy crap, a few times is maybe funny (well, not when he does it because it's just stupid and not good burns like the rest of us can throw out), but, he was trying to be funny with it wayyyyyy too many times.

he also likes to think he is 'cool' by doing things he doesn't normally do. my boyfriend smokes cigars so my dad starts bumming cigars off of him. the pack is expensive, there are like 8 cigars in a pack that costs 10 dollars. my dad just loves to take shit from people and never give back. especially lame when he doesn't even smoke cigars. he also doesn't know how to even smoke it. it just hangs from his mouth and looks like a chimney, it's stupid and gross.

anyway, my brother arrives with his fiancee around 10pm. we are having a pool party, it's great, but, my dad left earlier in the day to go see my grandma and then randomly shows up again, doing absolutely nothing but bumming stuff again (beer and more cigars this time), so, when my brother got there, my dad was there.

i go inside to use the washroom and my boyfriend comes in and starts telling me my dad is talking to him and saying that i am going to get mad if he does not go and let my dogs outside (he was watching my dogs because i wasn't going to be home, we were sleeping over). i didn't show it, but, inside, i was so mad. he always talks like that to people about me, and, it's not even true. he didn't even have to go bring them out at the time, so, yeah, way to paint a picture that i'm angry about something i am not even concerned about.

anyway, he leaves after maybe another 2 hours and my brother starts venting. he was mad that my dad couldn't even show up to his stag and doe but he shows up to his friend's house for a party he was not invited to.

my dad is retired and he never answers the phone, not even late at night when we all know full well he is home. he will look at the phone to see who is calling and then go sit down again, it's pathetic. my boyfriend left him a message a few weeks ago and he didn't even return it. that's just how he is, it's sad.

i don't hate my dad by any means, but, jesus, he is one of the biggest dicks i have ever seen. he came by sunday to help finish the garage....oh, wait, no, he came over and had them make him a coffee while the house owner, myself and my boyfriend slaved in the humidity to put up the dry wall. he was suppose to drive me back home but he just starts saying goodbye and leaving so i yell out uhhhh don't forget me and he says i have a hockey game bye and i said to him but you said you would drive me home and he says no he is going to be late for his hockey game, he is taking you home (points to boyfriend) and i am damn well pissed at this point, doing my best to hold it in. my boyfriend slaved for 2 days in that hot garage and he lives in the opposite direction. he drove me home, which takes about a half hour, and then drove all the way back to his place. he was home in an hour and a half, it was sickening. he said he didn't mind driving me at all but i still didn't want him to do it because i knew he was tired and it was a long drive.
 
this is the first time i posted it here.

??

unless you meant mentioning the stag and doe stuff. i think i mentioned it before, don't remember, but, the rest of it just happened the other day.
 
Nope its the same store ma'am.

Anyway yiur dad does sound like an ass.

I don't like my dad at all. He'll say he'll do something and ends uo never doing it. That's why I never talk to him
 
please link to where else i posted this story, lol, it just happened on saturday, i don't think i mentioned it at all. in fact, i am positive i didn't lol.
 
My mom is the parent I don't get along with. She would throw me under the bus over the silliest shit, and it would get to the point where I didn't even want to talk to her. And this continued even after I got into adulthood. I haven't spoken to her in 6 years, and honestly, I don't think I particularly want to. My stepmother has been far more of a mother to me.

My uncle on my dad's side of the family is even worse. He's an irresponsible piece of shit who can't hold a job, can't do home improvement projects right because he thinks the cheap way is always the best way, has lost homes and cars, has stolen things for drug money, has been an accessory to theft and destruction of property...hell, even when I was a kid and he was living with my dad, he would eat ALL of the snacks my dad had bought for me...behind my back while I was in school. It hurts a lot for me to say this, and I know this is a terrible thing to say, but I hope he either ends up in jail or ends up dead, because it is clear to me that he doesn't want help. I KNOW he is on drugs because he's displaying the same pattern of behavior that he's displayed when he was on drugs in the past. I know he doesn't want help because I know he relapsed after 6 years of sobriety once before, and the consequences of his actions since have done nothing to get his ass back on the straight and narrow. I sure as hell refuse to be an enabler to his bullshit, and unfortunately, only the worst of consequences can stop this...

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Whoooops!
I'm sorry I am beyond tired cause I thought you posted this in the Greases my Gears thread.

My fault lol
 
hahaha, no worries, i was just massively confused, lmao.

My mom is the parent I don't get along with. She would throw me under the bus over the silliest shit, and it would get to the point where I didn't even want to talk to her. And this continued even after I got into adulthood. I haven't spoken to her in 6 years, and honestly, I don't think I particularly want to. My stepmother has been far more of a mother to me.

My uncle on my dad's side of the family is even worse. He's an irresponsible piece of shit who can't hold a job, can't do home improvement projects right because he thinks the cheap way is always the best way, has lost homes and cars, has stolen things for drug money, has been an accessory to theft and destruction of property...hell, even when I was a kid and he was living with my dad, he would eat ALL of the snacks my dad had bought for me...behind my back while I was in school. It hurts a lot for me to say this, and I know this is a terrible thing to say, but I hope he either ends up in jail or ends up dead, because it is clear to me that he doesn't want help. I KNOW he is on drugs because he's displaying the same pattern of behavior that he's displayed when he was on drugs in the past. I know he doesn't want help because I know he relapsed after 6 years of sobriety once before, and the consequences of his actions since have done nothing to get his ass back on the straight and narrow. I sure as hell refuse to be an enabler to his bullshit, and unfortunately, only the worst of consequences can stop this...

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wow, that shit sucks.....my dad was not an alcoholic, but, he did drink quite a bit at times and got super angry. he would argue with my mom when he was drunk and punch walls in our house. one time, my mom and i were walking back to her place (she came to visit my dad) and he got so drunk, he argued, she left, he tried to follow us in the car to ask her to come back, he got out and the car was rolling with him standing half way out the door. he didn't even notice, he was so drunk. pretty much the biggest reason she left him was because of his temper and drinking. my boyfriend drinks a lot on some weekends but he doesn't get violent or stupid in any way, he gets hilarious. it's one thing to be a funny drunk, it's another to be a dickheaded drunk.
 
I was never a violent drunk. I got shitfaced a few times within my first 3 years of legal drinking age, but it was a hangover I suffered on my cousin's 21st birthday that gave me the wake-up call that I need to be more responsible with my alcohol consumption.

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I have a friend who went to jail, got kicked out of bars, and suffered an injury because of his drinking and he STILL doesn't get it. I hate having harp about his need to get his shit together, but he continues to behave irresponsibly and relies on other people help. He's helped a lot in the past, and he doesn't have many options in his situation, but I'm increasingly frustrated by lack of effort to change for the better.
 
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I know when people are trying to push my buttons and insult me just because they don't like my ideas and they need to stop. You know who you are! But then again, I don't get tired of arguing.

I bet I'd make a good lawyer too because of my ability to catch little ittty bitty loopholes and watch out with what I'm saying and because of my somewhat vindictive attitude. ;)

* Another thing I hate is when I the truth such as me being the victim of prejudism and body fascism for example, then some @$$holes would say "no that didn't happen to you you're lying".
- First of all, they're not me.
- Second, I just met them.
- Third, I wanted to kick them in the nuts but they still like me as a friend.
- So, when I see them again and they do the same thing, I'll remind them that what they're doing is a very dangerous pet peeve I have.

* I also don't want anyone telling me what to do unless I really will get pain to do it. (Mainly my bosses are allowed to do it but only to a certain extent.)
- No one should abuse their power against me because I can complain.

Bottom line, everyone who offends me pays the price. I don't let things slide just like that.

They will pay. They will pay. And they will PAY! Especially the gay ones because they are suppose to be on my side!
 
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People who use body spray, usually Lynx (I think it's called Axe in the US), instead of showering.

Take a damn shower. You smell like shit.
 
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