The funny think about elitism (especially over something that dumb, such as internet connections) is that it makes the elitist look like an a$$hole. There's too many factors for online play and connections to ever punish someone for disconnecting when it is not their fault.
For instance, my connection runs smooth and great! Unless someone starts to use the internet, then it lags, and sometimes disconnects. Sometimes its a friend or family using the Wi-Fi or internet on my laptop for something important... should I be penalized because I decide that my game is not important enough to tell people not to use the internet while I am playing?
I don't think its fair to anyone to say "my game is really important, so leave your online job applications for later while I fatality this dude."
Elitism, once again, is in absolution, and anything in absolution, is ignorant to secondary reasons and the shades of gray in our lives.
Leave your elitism elsewhere Tark Trash.
That being said, I think those who disconnect OFTEN or QUIT often should be penalized, but definitely not by attacking their wallets. There's so many possibilities and how that can go REALLY bad for consumers, and NRS.