Pat knows all of us very well and we all talk often. We have all at some point let Pat know that we have done something in which we feel/know we were in the wrong. If we didn't tell Pat ourselves, someone else would, so there is basically 'no escape' so we tell him everything. It may surprise you but we have a very honest team here and when we see another mod do something we don't agree with, we tell him, and Pat does the same for us if he sees us do something he disagrees with. Secrets only get people in more trouble than being honest in the first place. Someone will always tell.