Douchy friends who are nice to you.

Critical-Limit

Critical-Limit

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I've got like 3 friends who are some of the best friends a guy could ask for. There is just one flaw... they are huge buttholes to anyone else they don't know.

For example,
I went with one of them to a tournament. A guy walked infront of us and started watching semi's. My friend tapped his shoulder and in a agitated tone told him to get the hell out of the way.

In my eyes the guy did it on accident.. probably just being ignorant of his surroundings. I don't think he deserved that level of attitude.

They do that "What are you looking at?" kind of annoyed voice if they think someone is looking in their direction.

Just douche-baggy.

But to me... they will bend over backwards to help me with any problems I got. One of them even took the day off just to come help me with moving from place to place.

Some of the other people I know ask me why I hang out with that douchebag. And I just tell him "well he's cool with me." lol

Anytime I confront them about their behavior They just turn it on me and act like I'm always taking the other people's sides.

Just curious if anyone is in the same boat as me.
 
yeah I'm just wondering because... I feel like I'm trapped in a void of confusion.

I feel like I shouldn't be friends with people like them...

But they are so god damn nice to me It would feel wrong to try and "end friendship"

it's a cycle of confusion with these 3.
 
I kinda know how you feel, I think

Two of my friends talk shit about each other behind each other's back all the time, and I'm usually the one they're saiyan all this to

Yet they're both extremely nice to me, just not each other
 
I would sit them down and talk to them. Say how you appreciate the things they do for you, but try and talk to them about their behavior. Try and keep them quiet, and ask for them to hear you out. That is all the advice I can give:/
 
here in high School, I have to get along with them. there is no choice, or else you'll never walk again
 
I can relate, In my N.J.R.O.T.C unit our C.O (highest rank cadet) is the definition of a douche bag. Today we were practicing Color guard( oh yeah ya boy got that Left rifleman 8)) and he yells at the freshmen cadet on his first screw up <_<

He's just a rude guy and lazy as hell, but at times we share Lol's and shizz idk no one listens to him im probably the only one who respects him and listens to what he says.
 
If you can't behave like a civilized person in public, you essentially have no business hanging out with me. Hence, I make it a point to not hang out with people that act in that fashion towards others. Just because someone has been nice to you doesn't make their actions excusable. Remember, their actions will reflect on YOU as well. Don't be that guy, the conciliatory apologist for a d-bag. Not only is it uncool and will reflect on you, but it also makes you look like their doormat.
 
Do I ever have douchey friends :/

Let me list why I name them ALL douches:

-Racist-
-Rude-
-Acts like there better than other people, because they can't beat the shit out of them-
-Thinks there the best-
-Acts like people they don't like have dieseases (If that person goes near them, they scream SO LOUD and run away, not only being mean, but embarassing the other person)-
-Acts like evryones an ATM machine, waiting to give them money-
-Makes fun of people for stupid things (I actullay got made fun of for taking long in the wash room and having side burns :/)-
-My friends make anything sound wrong (I said I played with my bro, they made it sound sooo wrong)-​

But there still my friends :/
 
I don't care how other people envision me.

I just don't like the uncomfortable awkwardness when someone isn't being rude to us, but they are being rude to them.

I don't apologize for them, all I ever do is just take the "strangers" side if I feel they are being a dick. But then they get butthurt like i'm a traitor or something. lol I dunno.

like I said super nice to me. Dicks to everyone else.

It would be super simple to not hang with them if I saw them like this in the beginning. But I only recently started hanging out public (outside of hanging out in my house or their place.)

So yeah,

I feel like that chick that everyone asks why are you dating that D-bag. except a friendship version of it.
 
Critical-Limit said:
I've got like 3 friends who are some of the best friends a guy could ask for. There is just one flaw... they are huge buttholes to anyone else they don't know.

For example,
I went with one of them to a tournament. A guy walked infront of us and started watching semi's. My friend tapped his shoulder and in a agitated tone told him to get the hell out of the way.

In my eyes the guy did it on accident.. probably just being ignorant of his surroundings. I don't think he deserved that level of attitude.

They do that "What are you looking at?" kind of annoyed voice if they think someone is looking in their direction.

Just douche-baggy.

But to me... they will bend over backwards to help me with any problems I got. One of them even took the day off just to come help me with moving from place to place.

Some of the other people I know ask me why I hang out with that douchebag. And I just tell him "well he's cool with me." lol

Anytime I confront them about their behavior They just turn it on me and act like I'm always taking the other people's sides.

Just curious if anyone is in the same boat as me.
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If you have friends that will do anything for you, you shouldn't always have to care about what others think. Although I will agree that people being *******s to everyone is cool at all, but some people at times need to have something said to them. Nobody is perfect, would you rather have shitty friends that are nice to everyone, or great friends that are mean to everyone?
 
My friend is rude to people and a c_ckblocker but she is cool with me so I don't mind =)

I don't feel awkward, though, because we are both fairly blunt individuals so when she says something, it's usually something I agree with (like someone being a moron). She just tends to be blunt more often than I am, lol.

She is a nice person in general, just very vocal about exactly how she feels.
 
Jade said:
My friend is rude to people and a c_ckblocker but she is cool with me so I don't mind =)

I don't feel awkward, though, because we are both fairly blunt individuals so when she says something, it's usually something I agree with (like someone being a moron). She just tends to be blunt more often than I am, lol.

She is a nice person in general, just very vocal about exactly how she feels.
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Dump that C-blocker

c blocks are the worst thing on this planet
 
best bud I've known since I was 5, eventually turned into the biggest douche ever. Still is, proabaly never will change. Even his own family thinks of him like this.


But he stood up for me, but also ****ed me over many times. I guess I'm just used to dealing with ass hole type behavior and people cause that's all I've been used to. But that ain't me I guarantee you.
 
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lol i have a douchy friend who i speak to everyday. He is very single minded. He hates being wrong and wants you to do what he tells you.....But he can be alright sometimes.
 
lol so many examples in here of someone being a douche, to everyone including you. My 3 friends are SUPER nice people to me, Over the board nice. But not to anyone else.
 
I wouldn't worry. As long as you don't let it rub off onto you. Just set the example that you want to be set. Indirectly correct people, no one likes to hear about themselves.
Or just encourage their behavior that you do like.
 
I don't consort with those kind of people. So I don't have any friends like that. I make sure I have friends who are well-mannered and polite. I go out of my way to be polite to people in public. As much as I have a stigma for the human race, I won't openly express it. No reason to. There is a good friend at every turn I always say. Be courteous and respectful and you should receive the same in return.
 
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