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Alisa said:
Taj, at this stage you aren't supposed to know what to feel. Take it one day at a time. Clarity will come if you work for it. :)
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I guess, but I hate this... I dont want to feel devastated, but I cant help it.

I dont know, Im just gonna go to sleep now. Night all.
 
Doc said:
My man, I've got friends like that, and friends even worse. The best thing to do is encourage them and try to get them working on their life, that's what a good friend does...but you also need to accept that whether or not they will ultimately lies with them. It sucks, but such is life.
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I've tried he told me himself that I dont know what im talking about and he doesnt want my advice.
 
The world we live in today has found it all too easy to forsake love for the instant gratification of one's own selfish sexual desires. All too often do people use GOOD people to get what they want. They use them up, suck them dry, and leave them a bitter husk of their former selves. It is like a viral plague that spreads itself through abuse and disloyalty. It is the good people that suffer, for they are the only ones left with feeling, with morals, with emotions, and with honor. We have to support each and every one of these good people as much as possible. Convince them that no matter how bad the viral emotional vampires suck them dry that they CAN and WILL recover. And that through that perseverance will we only THEN create the cure for this cancer of the heart.
 
Life is best to be seen as a puzzle you wont kno how good or bad it look untill you have finished it.
its not to say its all bad some good at puzzles.

my grandfather told me this when I was growing up if you life is easy all the time your doing some thing wrong you need hardship to make you the man that your sapose to be.
 
Taj Gill said:
I dont know whether to be sad/angry or happy right now. My girl broke up with me, for good probably, today. Now, I really liked her, and I loved her as we were going out for 10 months, so obviously this is gonna impact me. However, I am about to finish first year university, while she is finishing high school and whenever I went out clubbing, with friends, etc. I wish I could let loose and not care about what I do, but I didnt want to upset her because lets face it, shit spreads this day and age and its better to not do something at all instead of doing something out of temptation and being caught. I dont have to worry about that anymore, but at the same time, I really loved her. I dont know what to feel.
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Aw men I am so sorry bro:(. Usually I give teens advice about breakups but I don't know if they will help much since you are grown but I think you should just try letting your feelings and emotions out so you won't feel so hurt. I let my feelings out here in TRMK and to my kouncelor(due to probation). And let your emotions out and just kry it out or punch shit dude. It will make you feel better. Try to work things out with her if she really loves you and if you really love her. If she doesn't want to then it will be probly time to let her go. I hope things are good for you brother. You and me are tag team here in TRMK and I don't want you to feel so upset. Its a good thing you kare about this breakup as well kause it shows you really kared about her. Just let her know dude. Talk to her.

mrodz said:
1. Forget Relationships
2. Become Swinger
3.?????
4. PROFIT! :D
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Dude we are having a nice mature konversation. Please don't bring that in. This is serious.
 
I can help here

sorry to say bro but it seems like imo
1. She did not feel the same way you did 10 months and over if she comes back try talking to her more

2. she is scared that the 2 of you are moveing to fast and didnt know how to react.
 
I kinda wish right now that we can all join in a group hug. I mean there is just so much support for one another in here that I think we all deserve one.
 
YAY GROUP HUG
MEN OVER THERE « WOMEN & ME OVER HERE »
?lol¿
were are people we care for each other
 
Lemme just throw my two cents in here for a little bit if I may. I was reading the last couple pages and it was like seeing myself at age 18 all over again.

I was always the "nice guy" of the group I hung out with. The dude who all the girls wanted to be BFFs with but never anything more. I was the shoulder they cried on when all the cool guys ignored them and treated them like crap. It sucked, but you know what? In the long term it ended up being a blessing in the long run. People can be kind of stupid sometimes, and if you treat people the way you'd want to be treated it will come back to you tenfold.

It's true that a lot of the time good people get the crap end of the stick, but you know what? The good ones can handle it.

Always remember, guys 18-20 aren't always the greatest in terms of making sure the women in their lives feel appreciated. Girls that age sometimes get spooked at the thought of a relationship getting serious and bail for no reason. I was dating a girl for a long time, when all of a sudden she dumped me out of the blue one day. She said I was taking her for granted, it actually was because she was starting college and was more than a little overwhelmed with so many life changes happening at once. It ended up okay though, we've been married for over 4 years now.

I've always thought it was one of nature's biggest jokes to time the onset of hormonal urges right about the same time most people's lives completely change from everything they were formerly used to. Hey, you're going to a new school getting ready to make the choices that will shape nothing less than the path of the rest of your entire life. Seems like a good time to add some chemicals that mess with your mind and cause tingly feelings.

Sometimes it seems like the pain lasts forever, never will get better, or you'll never find someone to share your life with. Thing is, it doesn't last forever, it will get better, and if you keep a positive outlook you will find someone who'll fulfill your life in ways you can't even imagine.

It sounds cliche or cheesy, but keep your head up and don't let some silliness from your significant other bring you down. It's always better to have someone to vent to, who knows, there may be some old dudes around who have traveled down the road you find yourself on now. Anyone who's been on a road trip knows it's always makes the trip easier if you're not going it alone.
 
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Aldo Moreno said:
Dude we are having a nice mature konversation. Please don't bring that in. This is serious.
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He is allowed to post whatever he wants, as long as he is not breaking rules. Please don't try to discourage people from posting here just because everyone else is having a certain kind of discussion. It's Just Talk and anyone can make any comment they want, as long as it is not against the rules.

~Thanks =)
 
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