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DCP said:
Haha, I was the same way. I'm a very stubborn person and at that age I was even more so. I was a knucklehead and thought I knew everything, I thought I knew what was best for me. It's a stage, trust me.
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But for an 18 year old going on 19 you think he would know by now.whats worst is that he thinks he is in love but everyone else sees that he is in pain.
 
Liu Kang93 said:
whats worst is that he thinks he is in love but everyone else sees that he is in pain.
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This was my last relationship. I thought I loved the guy, and I fought really hard for us. Then I saw that I was fighting for almost nothing. The relationship was devoid of any affection or understanding, so it's almost like I was punching at the air, trying to land a blow on anything. I've had a bit of a wakeup call since and now I see that real love doesn't hurt. I hope I'll find that sort of love someday.
 
~ Outworld's Goddess ~ said:
aldo, sweetie, just think about wats more important, going through relationships, or going strong through school & succeeding. ik u want 2 find someone special, but maybe ur looking 2 hard. just take a breather & run alot or lose urself in a book :) thats wat i do after a break up, & i buy chocolate ice cream too, because chocolate always cures a broken heart <3
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After my ex (that I was with for 2 years) broke up, I resorted to finding myself. I know it sounds kinda "Zen" but that's exactly what it is. Everything you do gives off energy. You yourself do. When you are faced with a problem, how you approach it is everything. Negativity attracts more negativity. You enjoy reading a book and eating ice cream, these things make you happy, causing you to give off positive energy.

We have a choice to either give off good/bad energy but we more importantly also have a choice to RECEIVE good/bad energy. Who you surround yourself with has a lot to do with your mood and outlook. And all this is not some pseudoscience, it's a fact. I use to hate life and was bitter every second. This just made things worse. Now when things are going wrong I just need to take a break, meditate a bit, and go on with my life.

Everything is curable in life, except death.

nemesiswontdie said:
Too true. I'm one of the nicest people in my school. I'll buy people a snack for lunch if their negative in lunch money or something and I wont even get a thanks in return.
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Don't change. Even if the world makes you want to. Decency, morals, and just general kindness are very rare nowadays. Qualities that will never stop being under appreciated I'm afraid.

Liu Kang93 said:
But for an 18 year old going on 19 you think he would know by now.whats worst is that he thinks he is in love but everyone else sees that he is in pain.
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Maturity is everything. Some people just need to be knocked down a couple times till it finally clicks, you know? I have been blessed with maturity at an early age. Not everyone is as lucky.
 
this topic made me shed a tear :') i just think back 2 all those times i use 2 think life & relationships were easy, i could have never been so wrong
 
This big talk we've been having makes me really excited to see what direction my life will head towards. Can't wait to find out! :)
 
I been told before I am pretty mature for my age and I was 15 at the time. Is this true?

@DCP, Thank you man. I will TRY my best and hardest to listen to this advice. Like someone told me before, you don't khange overnight. Today at the track meet, I was like wasn't even thinking about it. My mind was on winning. I didn't win but when I got done I was like hell yeah that was fun! Then was I cheering for my other team mates. But ahh everyone was krunk on the way back home. We were all singing this rap song kalled Mo City Don by Z-ro. I was the only brown skin dude in the krowd lol. It was fun. Then I got home and it was sinking into the whole I need a girl thing. **** man! I wish this wasn't the 2nd to last track meet"/.

I always had that type of attitude till school started"/. I lost it kause I was getting too jelous. I guess I should make the best I kan with the friends I have instead of being worried about being kool.

Thank you tho man!

This song always make me feel better:


@Godess, your gonna see my books in your store or me running for a school:DD.
 
I may not know the whole story and I dont mean to put my 2 cent in to the change jar but I my self know the better tast of a hartless relationship its not good to sit and saluk but to no were you both stand is were I failed to see my short comings again dont mean to but in.
 
AMES32 said:
I may not know the whole story and I dont mean to put my 2 cent in to the change jar but I my self know the better tast of a hartless relationship its not good to sit and saluk but to no were you both stand is were I failed to see my short comings again dont mean to but in.
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You're not butting in at all! Everyone is welcome here. :)
 
DCP said:
Maturity is everything. Some people just need to be knocked down a couple times till it finally clicks, you know? I have been blessed with maturity at an early age. Not everyone is as lucky.
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I see what you mean it is nice to have that sort of blessing. I just hope he finally realize that life is not all about chillin at home and playing videogames all day.
 
I dont know whether to be sad/angry or happy right now. My girl broke up with me, for good probably, today. Now, I really liked her, and I loved her as we were going out for 10 months, so obviously this is gonna impact me. However, I am about to finish first year university, while she is finishing high school and whenever I went out clubbing, with friends, etc. I wish I could let loose and not care about what I do, but I didnt want to upset her because lets face it, shit spreads this day and age and its better to not do something at all instead of doing something out of temptation and being caught. I dont have to worry about that anymore, but at the same time, I really loved her. I dont know what to feel.
 
Taj Gill said:
I dont know whether to be sad/angry or happy right now. My girl broke up with me, for good probably, today. Now I really liked her, and I loved her as we were going out for 10 months, so obviously this is gonna impact me. However, I am about to finish first year university and whenever I went out clubbing, with friends, etc. I wish I could let loose and not care about what I do, but I didnt want to upset her because lets face it, shit spreads this day and age and its better to not do something at all instead of doing something out of temptation and being caught. I dont have to worry about that anymore, but at the same time, I really loved her. I dont know what to feel.
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Taj, at this stage you aren't supposed to know what to feel. Take it one day at a time. Clarity will come if you work for it. :)
 
Lol Not the way he does it. He still lives life like if it was the summer of 2007. eatin junk food and playing the same game over and over and over again.
 
Liu Kang93 said:
Lol Not the way he does it. He still lives life like if it was the summer of 2007. eatin junk food and playing the same game over and over and over again.
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My man, I've got friends like that, and friends even worse. The best thing to do is encourage them and try to get them working on their life, that's what a good friend does...but you also need to accept that whether or not they will ultimately lies with them. It sucks, but such is life.
 
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