Death!

Dan Cowan said:
Like you said before, by moving on you aren't forgetting about them, but who wants to be sad all the time? I don't get why everyone hates you fox, that advice really works.
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Yea, this is what majority of people do. However Fox first said to forget the deceased entirely and move on. Only a person who has no feelings would say that. But I guess he worded it wrong the first time round and clarified better later on. :)
 
B13-Helghast said:
I'm sorry for your loss, I don't want to sound corny but... but they will live on in your heart.
Remember them with love and respect and... the pain won't go away (that I can promise, sorry for that) but will fade eventually and will mix with other feelings till you eventually are at peace with their passing.
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Actually, the pain does go away...not sure if you ever experienced a passing but people heal and most come to terms with it. Life goes on.
 
Jade said:
Actually, the pain does go away...not sure if you ever experienced a passing but people heal and most come to terms with it. Life goes on.
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Pretty much this. Life does go on. Its ok to feel sad for awhile but you can't dwell on it forever. I'm not saying to completely forget her, but you do need to realize that your life will go on and everything will work out in the end.
 
Flying Jinko said:
Yea, this is what majority of people do. However Fox first said to forget the deceased entirely and move on. Only a person who has no feelings would say that. But I guess he worded it wrong the first time round and clarified better later on. :)
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That, I used just a few words, I should explain myself better.

With forget about the person, I only meant, move on and don't think about it, dont start thinking "What if...", "I wish he/she would be here so....", "I should..." and that stuff, life and death; is the cicle of life, is something we all have to go through no matter how or who we are.
 
Fox17 said:
That, I used just a few words, I should explain myself better.

With forget about the person, I only meant, move on and don't think about it, dont start thinking "What if...", "I wish he/she would be here so....", "I should..." and that stuff, life and death; is the cicle of life, is something we all have to go through no matter how or who we are.
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This is how I dealed with my uncle's death
 
I've lost a few family members but I don't know what i'd do without my Dad. He's like my bestest friend. He hasn't died yet but I have a feeling he will cuase he's a constant smoker. Growing up me and him did almost everything together.
 
Jade said:
Actually, the pain does go away...not sure if you ever experienced a passing but people heal and most come to terms with it. Life goes on.
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Yeah; actually I lost waaaay to many friends and family already... and some will be missed extremely hard and when I have these moments remembering some of them it really hurts... I mean I'm no pussy... but losing a kid (miscarriage) I know that doesn't count for some peeps, but screw them, girlfriend (shot), a fiance (accident) and 3 best friends (single car crash) makes you a different person.

pimppaperclip said:
I've lost a few family members but I don't know what i'd do without my Dad. He's like my bestest friend. He hasn't died yet but I have a feeling he will cuase he's a constant smoker. Growing up me and him did almost everything together.
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That's prolly my biggest fear now too, losing my Dad... also a heavy smoker... I will be mess when he's gone, that's for sure.
May sound stupid, but after having dealt with earlier heavy losses, ^^I had my share of grief and I say: I'd rather die myself than to feel the agony of losing a loved one again, but maybe I AM a pussy in that departement but hey...

BTW sorry for the double post but don't know how to multiquote :)
 
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B13-Helghast said:
Yeah; actually I lost waaaay to many friends and family already... and some will be missed extremely hard and when I have these moments remembering some of them it really hurts... I mean I'm no pussy... but losing a girlfriend (shot) and a fiance (accident) and 3 best friends (single car crash) makes you a different person.
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WOAH, I'm sorry to hear about ur many loses, my friend.
 
Armageddon said:
WOAH, I'm sorry to hear about ur many loses, my friend.
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Yeah, thx :) at one time in my life I really thought I was... let's say cursed or that "something" was out to get me, like I was born for bad luck or better said: the peeps around me. (ridiculous me)
This all occured in a timespan of around 18 years it's not like it all happened in a few years but still...

After that I kinda hid from the world ending up in a downward spiral of drugs and misery (cliché)and a shitload of videogames... I got totally sucked into the virtual worlds and situations and decided it was more fun than real life and at least nobody could get hurt there :) but I got my act together (sort of) and moved on as far as I could and turned out just fine :)

Shit happens to all of us... that's life... only the dose per individual could be divided a lil better :)
 
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My girlfriend died four years ago. I didn't know how to cope with it. I just assumed that time heals all wounds. Tough on the mind and soul. The best way to cope with it is to talk about it and find as much closure as possible. My 2 cents...
 
I found the best way to deal with an unexpected death is to talk honestly and openly with someone u love and who u feel very comfortable talking to amd know they will listen

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