What Grinds your Gears, part 2
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Tarkatan Trash
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When your closet is clean, then you can come clean somebody else's, but clean yours first.
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Goddess
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I don't think you know many feminists because I am a proud feminist. I treat men the same way I treat women; with compassion, patience, friendliness, acceptance, and understanding. I am a feminist because I want to end sexism, because the same sexism that hurts women hurts men as well.
nemesiswontdie
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Anyone using the phrase "haters gonna hate" grinds my fvcking gears. It's such a dumb thing to say and it makes the person saying it look stupid. "Haters gonna hate" is just a childish defense to not being able to grasp the fact that someone else doesn't like what the other person likes. Hate is a part of human nature. If someone doesn't like you or the thing you like and you reply with "haters gonna hate", they are now 100% justified to shit talk all they want because not only does it show that you can't handle someones opinion or tastes, but you just called someone a "hater" and what does a hater do? They shit talk everything.
It's a dumb phrase that needs to die.
Commander
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Stop playing the victim.
No one hates you for being you.
People dislike your ideas of wanting to turn Mortal Kombat into porn.
I have nothing against YOU, personally, though. :top:
BBBLP
Robot Rock
Way to not read the dude's post. He's talking about people gaybashing him irl
Critical-Limit
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If you want to end sexism be egalitarian. Focusing in only one group ignores the issues on the other side.
It's sexist itself to only care about your own group.
Unless you actually believe America suffers from patriarchy. There are no laws holding women back.
Tarkatan Trash
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Allow me to chime in further....
Nasty_Freak had the audacity to accuse me of personally attacking me, when Nasty_Freak himself literally posted posted pornography on this board! (And I am NOT bullshitting; I saw him do it, and I saw the appropriate action get taken). Additionally, when you post things like "I want a fatality where this girl shoves a staff up the victim's ass and chops his penis off"...ummm, explain to me how that is NOT being perverted?! Speaking about shoving weapons up people's asses and chopping their penises off is far more disgusting and repulsive than anything I have EVER been accused of doing! Thrill Kill was cancelled for a VERY good reason.
And he accuses me of flaming when he has posted actual nudity here!
Do I need to say it again?! When your closet is clean, then you can come clean somebody else's, but clean yours first! If you're going to make allegations against people, be prepared to be called out on your own transgressions in return.
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Goddess
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Why do you think I only focus on one group? Growing up I always saw men call other men "sissy", "gay", or "pussy" because they became emotional. In high school, I had this one friend who was a boy and he loved hanging out with me and my girlfriends, but his parents told him to start hanging out with more boys because everyone started assuming he was gay. I support everyone.
Please don't assume that my views are only one-sided.
Commander
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His second reply was in regards to The Johnny Rook saying that based on his posts, 80% of his problems are him being his own worst enemy (as in him mistaking others hating on him when they don't care for certain ideas), to which he replied the way he did, and thus I replied to that.
I read the previous post, which is different from the 2nd post.
Way to try to turn that shit on me, though. :laugh:
Critical-Limit
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I didn't say you don't support everyone, I was strictly talking about feminism. (You) was directed at feminism not you directly Sorry about that)
A feminist would point out a wage gap (which has been proven time and time again to be an extremely bad study)
But none of them talk about how black people make less money.
An Egalitarian would look at ALL wage gaps of all races/genders/groups. And fix the problem overall. Feminism's focus is just kind of insulting to the rest of the groups cuz it tends to show that group in general only cares for it's own groups problems.
You sound more Egalitarian than a feminist to me.
I too don't think boys should be shunned or hanging with girls, I agree with everything you commented on. But you don't need to be a feminist to address those issues. Because that's not a sexist issue, That's more like "Apathy" issue. If someone's trying to be an asshole because they lack empathy. They are going to use W/E gets under your skin. If they use sexist remarks, it's not because SEXISM is rampant. Most people use those remarks with just the sole intent to harm your self esteem.
Working on creating human Empathy will fix everything you just stated. People make "make me a sandwhich jokes" because they know it gets under girls skins. But if I were a male instead and they wanted to make fun of me, They'd call me a "" or something. They'll use anything to get a rise out of you. Because they lack empathy.
I don't think it's an actual sexist issue, You're never going to make people NOT see genders. IF you want to a less Sexist sounding world. We need to work on human Empathy.
For the record Feminism bases it's help for "men" on patriarchy. So for instance, If you agree that Men get unfairly treated in divorce settlements and often times the women gets the kids. Feminism ignores this problem because they believe it will be automatically fixed if "Patriarchy" is removed.
I know the boards reject pornography because americans see sex as the devil incarnate.
But flaming IMO is worse than posting pornography. I do not wish to see pornography but its not something that will completely harm me or anyone else. Flaming COULD potentially hurt someone. If Someone is suffering from depression for instance, you may just be a dude on the internet. But you could totally end up pushing someone to suicide with internet comments.
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Taj Gill
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I don't mind feminism, so long as it's not of the extremist variant which is what people group the "proper" feminism with and assume that all feminists are psychotic.
I'm usually against things such as Pride parades, anything to celebrate diversity pretty much because if minorities want to be treated like "equals" then why celebrate the differentiation? Keep in mind I'm considered part of a minority too so I don't hold any prejudice here.
But I am a firm believer in the mistreatment of women, all the way to acknowledging the recently passed International Women's Day. In fact, what grinds my gears recently is the fact that the country in which I'm associated with by family background (India) is a cesspool of disgusting rapists who try to justify raping innocent women because "they're out too late, wearing provacative clothes when they should be in the home, therefore needed to be taught a lesson". Oh, that's not all, one pig admitted to raping a FIVE YEAR OLD because she was "a beggar, who's life was worthless". Finally, the lawyers defending the rapists say "India has the best culture in the world, where women have no place in it." I'm glad my grandparents got out of that disgusting filth of a country and emigrated to Canada, but unfortunately I'm going to have to be associated with that backwards country with a backwards culture for the rest of my life.
If anyone wants to watch that interview, it's called India's Daughters. The BBC made it, and in typical backwards Indian culture fashion, the government has threatened legal action against the BBC. Great country guys, I tell ya.
I'm usually against things such as Pride parades, anything to celebrate diversity pretty much because if minorities want to be treated like "equals" then why celebrate the differentiation? Keep in mind I'm considered part of a minority too so I don't hold any prejudice here.
But I am a firm believer in the mistreatment of women, all the way to acknowledging the recently passed International Women's Day. In fact, what grinds my gears recently is the fact that the country in which I'm associated with by family background (India) is a cesspool of disgusting rapists who try to justify raping innocent women because "they're out too late, wearing provacative clothes when they should be in the home, therefore needed to be taught a lesson". Oh, that's not all, one pig admitted to raping a FIVE YEAR OLD because she was "a beggar, who's life was worthless". Finally, the lawyers defending the rapists say "India has the best culture in the world, where women have no place in it." I'm glad my grandparents got out of that disgusting filth of a country and emigrated to Canada, but unfortunately I'm going to have to be associated with that backwards country with a backwards culture for the rest of my life.
If anyone wants to watch that interview, it's called India's Daughters. The BBC made it, and in typical backwards Indian culture fashion, the government has threatened legal action against the BBC. Great country guys, I tell ya.
Critical-Limit
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Word man, I agree
India is a place that needs feminism.
That place actually has patriarchy.
THE JOHNNY ROOK
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[MENTION=4598]Nasty_Freak[/MENTION]
To bring Nasty back into this. And he can freely come in and defend himself, not that we are bashing him, I am just pointing out that there is usually something always attacking him. As if he backs himself against the wall, and if you ever pay attention, constantly threatening bodily harm or something else far more severe. I believe it is a never ending series of insecurities this guy possess. He is searching for a day when all his haters stop hating but his borderline paranoia takes over, worried of what he thinks people feel towards him, whether it be through conversing or body language. To me, correct me if I wrong Nasty, you have a lot of unresolved intrapersonal conflicts that you have not fully realized. This paranoia of being backed into a wall and the world is out to get him leads to fantamanical thoughts of perverse feelings and morbid ecstasy
But what do I know? I am not a doctor.
To bring Nasty back into this. And he can freely come in and defend himself, not that we are bashing him, I am just pointing out that there is usually something always attacking him. As if he backs himself against the wall, and if you ever pay attention, constantly threatening bodily harm or something else far more severe. I believe it is a never ending series of insecurities this guy possess. He is searching for a day when all his haters stop hating but his borderline paranoia takes over, worried of what he thinks people feel towards him, whether it be through conversing or body language. To me, correct me if I wrong Nasty, you have a lot of unresolved intrapersonal conflicts that you have not fully realized. This paranoia of being backed into a wall and the world is out to get him leads to fantamanical thoughts of perverse feelings and morbid ecstasy
But what do I know? I am not a doctor.
Nasty_Freak
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Actually, I think that was a pic of a girl I didn't know her nips were still exposed. It's very harmless and DOES NOT ATTACK ANYONE!!! I never intentionally attack people in any way. You just basically like to cause trouble and you FLAME PEOPLE!!! I at least just talk about sexual fantasies! I DON'T ATTACK ANYONE! When you attack someone, it's a threat to any forum!!!! So if you think my closet is dirty, yours is A LOT dirtier because you attack people who don't even want to deal with you!!!!! You and all trouble makers grind my gears!
[MENTION=5028]Commander[/MENTION]: My ideas are my prerogatives and that never defines me nor do they intentionally attack (meaning flame) others!!! But about me playing victim... whatever! Why, because I am not acting as a victim. But it's ok.
[MENTION=4996]THE JOHNNY ROOK[/MENTION]: I get uncomfortable and sometimes unsure how people think of me but I think it's because I've been hated so many times for being gay or being unappreciated by the guys I want. But yes, there are people who purposely want to start stuff with me because I look innocent I believe or I look easy to be picked on because of my voice and the way I walk. And you are right. You are not a doctor. Maybe if you did actually get to meet me in real life, you'd know that what I'm saying is true my friend.
[MENTION=5186]Goddess[/MENTION]: There is nothing wrong with feminists. To me, it's just people being girly and doing their own thing (kind of like me lol).
They don't attack others. Unlike racists, homophobics, and guys (gay and straight) who are just body fascists.
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Temptress
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Feminists only want equality when it is BENEFICIAL to them. When it is not they are perfectly fine with sexist double standards. Seriously, if you're all for 'equality' you should be an egalitarian, not a feminist. I can name a handful of sexist double standards off the top of my head, here's some:
It's men being sentenced to more time for the same crime than women. This can be researched under the US government and shows that women don't get held accountable to the level that men do.
Why is it when two people under the age of consent have sex, only the boy is charged with doing something wrong?
Just about every TV show being allowed to humiliate and degrade men, but women complaining and calling it sexist if they were treated the same.
Women wanting equality for their gender, but men being called chauvinist pigs when they want equality for their gender.
Women getting everything in a divorce (alimony, etc.), and men being torn away from their children.
It's women being allowed to level false accusation against an innocent man without consequence. Read Duke Lacrosse and many other examples. Feminism has installed this right to women through the courts.
Oh, and if we're talking about 'domestic violence' and the whole '95% of domestic violence victims are women) myth:
Regarding perpetration of violence, more women than men (25 percent versus 11 percent) were responsible. In fact, 71 percent of the instigators in nonreciprocal partner violence were women.
I will never understand how it's 'okay' for a woman to hit a man, but if the man dares to defend himself he's a criminal or a woman beater?! These people (feminists) can't even give a rational reason why a man should not defend himself from an attack from another adult just because the attacker has a vagina.
It's men being sentenced to more time for the same crime than women. This can be researched under the US government and shows that women don't get held accountable to the level that men do.
Why is it when two people under the age of consent have sex, only the boy is charged with doing something wrong?
Just about every TV show being allowed to humiliate and degrade men, but women complaining and calling it sexist if they were treated the same.
Women wanting equality for their gender, but men being called chauvinist pigs when they want equality for their gender.
Women getting everything in a divorce (alimony, etc.), and men being torn away from their children.
It's women being allowed to level false accusation against an innocent man without consequence. Read Duke Lacrosse and many other examples. Feminism has installed this right to women through the courts.
Oh, and if we're talking about 'domestic violence' and the whole '95% of domestic violence victims are women) myth:
Regarding perpetration of violence, more women than men (25 percent versus 11 percent) were responsible. In fact, 71 percent of the instigators in nonreciprocal partner violence were women.
I will never understand how it's 'okay' for a woman to hit a man, but if the man dares to defend himself he's a criminal or a woman beater?! These people (feminists) can't even give a rational reason why a man should not defend himself from an attack from another adult just because the attacker has a vagina.
Temptress
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There is nothing wrong with feminists. To me, it's just people being girly and doing their own thing (kind of like me lol).
You don't know what feminism is, do you? :laugh: