Well...NRS has done what they can to ensure fans that they will get their hands on everything eventually, and that pre-ordering from every store offering a kostume is not necessary nor expected in order to get everything. As I said, they can't just say "Don't pre-order, it's all in the game on the disc" because that would defeat the whole purpose. Stores pay WB in order to obtain an exclusive so that people will purchase the game from their store specifically. If you say everything is in the game, then there's no sense of exclusivity, and it's not important where you get the game from.
From a fan's perspective, it's outrageous to pre-order the same game from multiple stores just to get 1 little item that has been stated to be available to everyone eventually. So...no, I don't feel sorry for them. If those fans had patience, they wouldn't be throwing their money down the drain. Like I said, that's their choice. I want everything as well, but I can wait and just enjoy the game for everything it has to offer. I don't need everyone's klassic outfits right away in order to be happy and content. I'm sorry that some people do, but they know what they are getting themselves into, so I don't feel bad.
I'd be very happy if the outfits were in the game as unlockables, and signs point to that being the case. They should be on the disc, and the pre-orders should only offer immediate unlocking instead of getting them via the game's method. Pre-orders that offer exclusive content that can't be gotten any other way, are the ones that are doing fans wrong...not these ones.