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TEAR OF THE DRAGON

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Hey i really don't like to whine about my problems to everyone so this topic is to talk about your'e life problem and how you deal with em..That means everyone want to poste here should talk about his problems and not try to make the other guy feel better..Well mine are

-The fact that i'm gonna die
-I love a girl(jessica oh yea)but her parents doesn't let us go out together,cause im an arab
-People that insults me at the streets cause of what i'm wearing
-Chavs that tries to make fun of me cause of what i'm wearing
-The fact that i miss my country and i am probably gonna die here :cry:


Meh that's it..And how do i deal with these stuff
-I try to be happy
-I try to not look at her or talk to her(cause it's kinda hurting)
-Ignore
-Show them that just cause i like black doesn't mean that im depressed,cut myself,gonna commit suicide or what ever of that kind,just trying to be myself..
-And that,i try to see the good stuff arround here
 
triple-h got beat by the worlds 2nd worst wrestler(batistas 1st) john cena at wrestlemania. Its an absoloute travesty!!! :x :( I deal with it by crying into my pillow every night :( :cry: . Dont tell anyone :lol:
 
TEAR OF THE DRAGON said:
Hey i really don't like to whine about my problems to everyone so this topic is to talk about your'e life problem and how you deal with em..That means everyone want to poste here should talk about his problems and not try to make the other guy feel better..Well mine are

-The fact that i'm gonna die
-I love a girl(jessica oh yea)but her parents doesn't let us go out together,cause im an arab
-People that insults me at the streets cause of what i'm wearing
-Chavs that tries to make fun of me cause of what i'm wearing
-The fact that i miss my country and i am probably gonna die here :cry:


Meh that's it..And how do i deal with these stuff
-I try to be happy
-I try to not look at her or talk to her(cause it's kinda hurting)
-Ignore
-Show them that just cause i like black doesn't mean that im depressed,cut myself,gonna commit suicide or what ever of that kind,just trying to be myself..
-And that,i try to see the good stuff arround here
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What the hell is wrong with you? Just because you can't get the girl of your dreams or any of the above doesn't mean your life is over. Try standing up, man up and be brave to tell her that you love her so bad. I don't care who you are, we have the freedom to love and be who we are! Look. Even though I don't have a girlfriend doesn't mean my life is over. I keep going until the day I f&%$*@g die. Try to reason with her parents that you like her so much until y'all agree on something. :x And don't listen what others say about you. Just take it like a man and move on.
 
i look at it the other way....my life sucks because

- Im going to live.
(sorry but i just cant stand this world and the longer i live in it the worse it will be.)
- I have no GF..but i dont care really. Fuck women is what i say...most of the time they dont know what they want, or they like some stupid shit like "i like sk8ters! LOLS" get real bitch. He wont be a skater when he is old. I would rather be single with no kids, no additional problems to deal with. Plus im tired of telling females how they can fix their life and they wont listen. Its a waste of breath, and not worth my time. And im tired of hearing them complain why they cant get BF's... yeah its probly because your ugly and fat :roll: sorry, its probly something else that you are overlooking. actually i know it is.

- I dont have a job...and i have an allergic reaction to something that even the DR.s cant figure out. I payed over 1,000 to these idoits to tell me..."i dont know" and "theres nothing we can do for you". Gee thanks asshole. This rash makes me get hives all over...and i cant do physical work because my skin will turn red, itch, and maybe even get hives in the area i put pressure on. So im fucked for finding a job.

- PS. i live with my dad who never opens his mouth unless he has something negative to say about everything.

- Try having a selfish family...they act like they care but they really dont give a shit about you. I mean i could be out on the streets and my family wouldnt even care....when i try to talk to them about my problems they say, "yeah" and then go back to talking about their shit. Yeah...

deal with that.!

Now i feel better... :D
 
Vigilante_FireDragon said:
TEAR OF THE DRAGON said:
Hey i really don't like to whine about my problems to everyone so this topic is to talk about your'e life problem and how you deal with em..That means everyone want to poste here should talk about his problems and not try to make the other guy feel better..Well mine are

-The fact that i'm gonna die
-I love a girl(jessica oh yea)but her parents doesn't let us go out together,cause im an arab
-People that insults me at the streets cause of what i'm wearing
-Chavs that tries to make fun of me cause of what i'm wearing
-The fact that i miss my country and i am probably gonna die here :cry:


Meh that's it..And how do i deal with these stuff
-I try to be happy
-I try to not look at her or talk to her(cause it's kinda hurting)
-Ignore
-Show them that just cause i like black doesn't mean that im depressed,cut myself,gonna commit suicide or what ever of that kind,just trying to be myself..
-And that,i try to see the good stuff arround here
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What the hell is wrong with you? Just because you can't get the girl of your dreams or any of the above doesn't mean your life is over. Try standing up, man up and be brave to tell her that you love her so bad. I don't care who you are, we have the freedom to love and be who we are! Look. Even though I don't have a girlfriend doesn't mean my life is over. I keep going until the day I f&%$*@g die. Try to reason with her parents that you like her so much until y'all agree on something. :x And don't listen what others say about you. Just take it like a man and move on.
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I'm gonna die cause i have blood cancer(not pretty sure that i'm gonna die but just have like 10%chance of survival and 90% of ..you know what
 
TEAR OF THE DRAGON said:
Vigilante_FireDragon said:
TEAR OF THE DRAGON said:
Hey i really don't like to whine about my problems to everyone so this topic is to talk about your'e life problem and how you deal with em..That means everyone want to poste here should talk about his problems and not try to make the other guy feel better..Well mine are

-The fact that i'm gonna die
-I love a girl(jessica oh yea)but her parents doesn't let us go out together,cause im an arab
-People that insults me at the streets cause of what i'm wearing
-Chavs that tries to make fun of me cause of what i'm wearing
-The fact that i miss my country and i am probably gonna die here :cry:


Meh that's it..And how do i deal with these stuff
-I try to be happy
-I try to not look at her or talk to her(cause it's kinda hurting)
-Ignore
-Show them that just cause i like black doesn't mean that im depressed,cut myself,gonna commit suicide or what ever of that kind,just trying to be myself..
-And that,i try to see the good stuff arround here
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What the hell is wrong with you? Just because you can't get the girl of your dreams or any of the above doesn't mean your life is over. Try standing up, man up and be brave to tell her that you love her so bad. I don't care who you are, we have the freedom to love and be who we are! Look. Even though I don't have a girlfriend doesn't mean my life is over. I keep going until the day I f&%$*@g die. Try to reason with her parents that you like her so much until y'all agree on something. :x And don't listen what others say about you. Just take it like a man and move on.
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I'm gonna die cause i have blood cancer(not pretty sure that i'm gonna die but just have like 10%chance of survival and 90% of ..you know what
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accept jesus as your lord and savior and you wont be sad about dying.... dude right now earth is my hell...and im sick of it. I cant wait to die and go to heaven....it will be so much better then this place.
 
The 7th Number said:
TEAR OF THE DRAGON said:
Vigilante_FireDragon said:
TEAR OF THE DRAGON said:
Hey i really don't like to whine about my problems to everyone so this topic is to talk about your'e life problem and how you deal with em..That means everyone want to poste here should talk about his problems and not try to make the other guy feel better..Well mine are

-The fact that i'm gonna die
-I love a girl(jessica oh yea)but her parents doesn't let us go out together,cause im an arab
-People that insults me at the streets cause of what i'm wearing
-Chavs that tries to make fun of me cause of what i'm wearing
-The fact that i miss my country and i am probably gonna die here :cry:


Meh that's it..And how do i deal with these stuff
-I try to be happy
-I try to not look at her or talk to her(cause it's kinda hurting)
-Ignore
-Show them that just cause i like black doesn't mean that im depressed,cut myself,gonna commit suicide or what ever of that kind,just trying to be myself..
-And that,i try to see the good stuff arround here
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What the hell is wrong with you? Just because you can't get the girl of your dreams or any of the above doesn't mean your life is over. Try standing up, man up and be brave to tell her that you love her so bad. I don't care who you are, we have the freedom to love and be who we are! Look. Even though I don't have a girlfriend doesn't mean my life is over. I keep going until the day I f&%$*@g die. Try to reason with her parents that you like her so much until y'all agree on something. :x And don't listen what others say about you. Just take it like a man and move on.
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I'm gonna die cause i have blood cancer(not pretty sure that i'm gonna die but just have like 10%chance of survival and 90% of ..you know what
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accept jesus as your lord and savior and you wont be sad about dying.... dude right now earth is my hell...and im sick of it. I cant wait to die and go to heaven....it will be so much better then this place.
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I'm muslim(do not wanna start a religious talk..like kore told me its the best way to start a fight)that means jesus isn't my lord,just another prophet..And if your'e asking me to get close to god,well i'm already close..But i'm not scared after death..Just my father is gonna lose me after he lost my mom(same desease)..And the only other person he has is my brother(who is really addopted)..So my pain stops and i will start another pain(s)that's what im afraid off
 
I don't sit around and mope about things in my life.

I feel that the individual is capable of changing whatever they want in their life. If they feel something isn't right, they can do something to change that or do something else to go in an entirely different direction.

I feel that a person is ever-changing. Maybe not growing, but changing. I look at myself now, look at myself 3 years ago, look at myself 3 years before that, and try and envision myself 3 years down the road. I am aware of what I was like, how I am different, and what I want to change. I then try and do something to make me into the person I want to be in three years time (or X number of years time).

My view points change from year to year. Hell. My views change from day to day and minute to minute. I may think one way on a matter, and defend that view, but then two hours later have an entirely different view. But I do stand up for myself and what I believe - although I do try and keep an open mind.

I honestly feel that somewhere down the line I want to be known. I won't sit here and lie, but I would love to be famous for something. Chances are it will never happen but it never hurts to dream. I do have some plans to try and not only change my lifestyle, but to alter my personality - to stomp out the weak spots I have identified and change those weaknesses into strengths.

Example; Right now I attend school and have a job as a shift manager at a deli/bakery, which i've been at for a little more than 3 years. Is this a job people look at and say "Wow! Look where he is at!?" ... hell no. But it's a job and it pays my apartment rent, meals, and entertainment. I also happen to like working there. I've come to know customers and employees quite well, I have fun, and it's a great place to meet girls in my age range. So it works for me, for right now.

My plan is to finish school in the next year or two. I've obtained my associates degree and im about 30 something hours away from my bachelors in Science (Criminal Justice). The real question I havn't answered for myself is what I plan to do once I get that degree. I'm jumbling a few ideas in my head.

I want to apply for a job in the federal government - along the lines of CIA, FBI, SS, and so forth. I know a few people who are in or are former members of some of the organizations and they all love their job and have made a good amount of money in the field. But I know I don't want to do that in the next year or two.

I first want to move somewhere I have never really been, eyeing somewhere out west in California maybe like San Diego. I've had a friend live there and love it and I feel the west would be a good change of scenery and help change my character a bit. I just want to move out there and not know anyone - get a job somewhere, maybe in my field, and meet new people who I know nothing about.

Once in my new place I want to try a few things. This summer im gonna start working out. It would help in my career, but that's not the main reason. I just want to get a little bigger. Not huge, just in shape. Someone you look at and go "Be nice to be in that type of shape". And I will do it. I know this. I don't say it and then not do it. That never accomplishes anything. I also want to try and pick up a foreign language. Something easy like Spanish as I have been around it for years in the work place and am already familiar with it from high school (oh so long ago). That also aids in my career but also gives me something most other Americas don't have, the ability to speak in two languages. I know it will take a lot of hard work and learning, but I do want to do it.

Next comes some stuff I wouldn't have dreamed myself doing a few years back; drama. I like acting and I like dancing, although I have never really done either. But I would love to take part in some simple dance lessons (like 1 or 2x a week at night) and maybe even do some acting lessons, if not just for fun. Not only will it help me meet people in the new area im living in (California is a good area for these things, that's a good reason to move there) but it will help expand my personality. It will help me do things I normally would be hesitant to do. I honestly feel I "could" be good at them as I do have a very good people/communication skills and charisma, WHEN I use them. My only problem is I use them maybe like 40% of the time. I want to try and increase that number and I feel things like this would help.

Who knows what would come from that? Maybe you end up meeting some people and get into something in that field. That would be a dream as I think my deepest desire would someone in the movie or film area. Nah. Probabaly won't even happen but you never know, right?

All things said and done, I have some things I would like to not only help better myself, but give myself a shot at some things I normally wouldn't do living a normal routined life.

I honestly don't want to live a normal life as someone who gets a job, has a daily routine, marries, lives in a neighborhood in a decent area, has kids, and so forth. Don't get me wrong - I will take that life and enjoy it if it comes to that - but what I really want to do is get out there and live a more random, fashionable, and fun life style.

Will it happen? Who knows. I will have the degree and hopefully the job to fall back on, which will be fine. I know that. But I do want to try and do something in the next few years - if not just to expand my personality and wordly experience.

Also just to have a little fun.

I honestly don't even know what I just typed. It's a bunch of clutter coming off the top of my head but I hope you enjoyed reading it.

If you want me to sum it up I will just say be your own person. Don't worry about how other people view you and don't be afraid of yourself. There are many things I don't see myself doing or I feel scared to do but lately I have tried actually doing those things - and im enjoying it.

Dream. It's great. Keep dreaming and dreaming but try and have something to fall back on if those dreams don't work out.

Maybe I will end it here although I feel I could type on for days.
 
The 7th Number said:
accept jesus as your lord and savior and you wont be sad about dying.... dude right now earth is my hell...and im sick of it. I cant wait to die and go to heaven....it will be so much better then this place.
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My opinion is that you make your own heaven or hell right here. If you choose to focus on the negative, then yes, it is your hell.

I know this probably sounds sappy and completely unrealistic to you, but it's even more unrealistic to assume that life is going to be bad and unsalvageable no matter what. Sure it can't be 100% great all the time, but it can't be a total shitstorm all the time either; it works both ways.

You should think more about what you're doing to make this place heaven than about how great it will be once you're finally out of here. As strong as your faith may be, no one really knows what's waiting for us when we die, so the best thing to do is make your life now the heaven that you seek.

Sorry, I know you didn't ask, but I felt like interjecting.
 
Yeah, I remember that religion thread well. It's how me n kore became buds really.

Don't worry about your dad dude, he'll be alright. Sure, he'll be sad for a while, we all will be, but he'll know that you're somewhere better and be happy for you. And plus, you got a hell of a lot more chance of survival than those assholes who buy lottery tickets have of winning, and yet a lot of them win. I believe you'll pull thru
 
Yea but dude i'm 14 you know how 14 years old bastards are like..Oh i was a kid when i was 11..We think that we are men but we are not,not at all..And the thing that everyone else has advantage over me is that theres probably no :''in 3 years i will be diffrent everything will change for me''not even a year..I try to keep myself positive but if i kept myself positive i won't be able to see the result if i failed...I will always think that i'm a winner where im the Biggest loser ever(here should go the R)...

You see just cause i got problems in my life doesn't mean that i STOP having fun,i just deal with them and i prefer to let everybody knows all of my problems cause they are part of me...And i have to accept them like everyone else would do if he/she was in my shoe's(i wear boots more often).

Someone says :''life is nothing you go to school when your'e young,work when your'e old and when you finish,your'e finished''i say :''Fuck no''what will you forget about the precious moment with friends?just the WORK thing to remeber and won't remeber the moment you got married?will you forget about the moment you shared with you friends at school and work?Ok i think many of you will think tha tit's positive thinking but its not
 
You negative people suck. Life is full of ups and downs and I never complain about it. You can't have it all good. There HAS to be some bad to balance it out. You learn from those negative experiences and they make you smarter. Don't complain about them, embrace them because no matter how bad things get, you come out with a new lesson in life learned.

If people make fun of you, stand tall. I never let people bother me at all. I couldn't care less what they say. I just hear what they have to say, shrug my shoulders and go on with my day. I'm not going to let someone else's shallow opinion of me ruin my day.

Most people complain about stupid things anyway like how much they hate school. Yeah, when you get a job and have bills up to your ass, you'll be wishing you were in school. Laugh now but when you get older, you'll tell me I was right.
 
XxJadexX said:
You negative people suck. Life is full of ups and downs and I never complain about it. You can't have it all good. There HAS to be some bad to balance it out. You learn from those negative experiences and they make you smarter. Don't complain about them, embrace them because no matter how bad things get, you come out with a new lesson in life learned.

If people make fun of you, stand tall. I never let people bother me at all. I couldn't care less what they say. I just hear what they have to say, shrug my shoulders and go on with my day. I'm not going to let someone else's shallow opinion of me ruin my day.

Most people complain about stupid things anyway like how much they hate school. Yeah, when you get a job and have bills up to your ass, you'll be wishing you were in school. Laugh now but when you get older, you'll tell me I was right.
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I have to agree with you on that one. There are a lot of people who don't give a damn about their life. Just enjoy it and take whatever Earth has to offer you in order to make you feel happy.
 
Unfortunately sometimes it's not that easy to enjoy life. For example, I don't particularly love going to school, but I know I have to or else I'll be screwed for the rest of my life. I mainly hate those stereotypical bastards and all that crap that goes around school nowadays. It's totally wrong to judge someone on the way they dress, what music they like, what their hairstyles are, etc. Of course complaining doesn't do anything, but you kind of feel better after letting it all out. Sometimes I just feel like happiness is out of reach...just hovering above me and yet I still can't get it.

But, that doesn't mean I hate life. I still have a lot of fun just being with friends and stuff. If only the world would be perfect...you know, with no poverty, disease, war, etc. Is that even possible? The world is sure cruel to some people...where's the justice in that?

Then again, what do I know....
 
You don't have to complain about it at all to feel better. When someone judges you, you say to yourself "that person is just jealous of me, that's why he feels the need to try to put me down but I'm better than him so I don't care". People who judge are just insecure with themselves.
 
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