You have to understand that the way you word your posts, you apparently come across as arrogant to some people.
It's not my call, so I can't explain it to you, just relaying info, is all, though my main target when I suggested 'ease up' was for posts like the ones you made in the pony thread, and I believe I saw a few of your posts in debates a few weeks back. People just find them a little arrogant. I am not saying you are trying to be that way, just passing the info, so don't kill the messenger =), though I can somewhat understand why they would think so.
You are otherwise a fine member, so keep it up, just remember to report anything that goes against the rules =)